…sing’ as a male, albeit a pretty short one, I’ve been welcomed into these spaces and conversations. I’ve heard such wonderful delights as dude-bros bragging about cheating on their girlfriends, talking about how much they want to ‘ram’ some other poor girl next. In some rare cases, even going as far as joking about rape.
Men don't tend to talk about cheating or rape to each other, and they would get called out by their friends if they did. You are either in some very immature or backwards groups, or just making this up.